Fruity White Sangria Pops

You know that old saying, “If you don’t have anything nice to say…”? Well I guess that doesn’t apply to the internet. Something about the perceived anonymity gives peoples brass enhancements and lures them into saying things they would never say in person. Something about the web makes people brazen and a wee bit ridiculous. I see a lot of my fellow blogging friends brought down by rude comments and either I just don’t write in a way that makes people want to comment or my spam filters are excellent at picking up on BS, but I don’t get that many nasty comments. I think I have had 5 comments in the few years I have been doing this that left me perplexed or laughing.

I recently saw one of my recipes and images features on another web site, where in the comment section a reader accused me of stealing the recipe. Cool. If they had read my post, on my web site, where they never had the stones to come comment about a recipes authenticity, they would have seen that I did not claim the recipe as my own at all. That in the post I said it was a recipe that my step mother had shown me years before and that a quick google search listen thousands of origins for, but since she was the one who taught me the recipe, like someone had taught her, that’s where that debate ended. It’s cool that that other sites that’s getting thousands of hits from pinterest by using my pictures is letting people question recipe authenticity though. Clearly the concerned reader, or editors of that other site were so bothered about copyrights they were willing to come back here and contact me directly.

I see where hurtful or negative comments can really upset someone, I am not impervious to that. However, I have always had the attitude (at least on the internet) that if someone is willing to leave a hurtful comment, you probably annoyed them far more than there comment can you. After all, we bloggers have the mighty power to delete said comment if it really gets under our skin.

So with that in mind, and because I had some moments of font loving the other day, (and because I am doing a minor experiment) here are some graphics for ya. Feel free to use them if you like.

Oh, and some wine in case that rant didn’t help.

 


Comments

  1. says

    Wow, I guess I’m fortunate enough to not having (or haven’t yet) received such hurtful comments. Either that, or I’m just too thick-skinned to get affected by it. Love both your kick-ass signs. Now if everyone could put one on their blog …
    I love these ice pops … absolutely perfect for our boiling humid weather. I’d sit in a tub of them too! How delicious! :)

  2. says

    Sorry to hear about the hurtful comments. I do love your graphics and the sangria pops! I usually have a ton of fruit around the house and it’s nice to be able to use them in something other than a smoothie :) Thanks for sharing!

  3. says

    Oh my gosh, your graphics are hilarious.
    Your pops look amazing, and I think an excellent remedy for nasty comments. ;)

  4. says

    I like the green graphic, it’s just perfect. I don’t get people who steal photos and recipes. If you aren’t creative enough to come up with your own stuff, why are you running a blog? People are wacky. Oh, and thanks for the wine. :)

  5. says

    Yikes, that’s just crazy! I better have a few of these gorgeous sangria pops in the freezer in case I get a nasty comment :)

  6. says

    LOL, so glad you brought up some of the things I’ve been thinking about…so sorry you had to deal with all the “it’s not your recipe” BS…never fun. I find it irritating when people don’t read the entire post and then jump to conclusions…if the information is all there for them to read, they should take the time to go through it before accusing you of stealing someone else’s recipe. Well, I just love your recipes and posts so keep up the great work! Oh, and your sangria pops look GREAT!

  7. says

    Katrina and I have shared some of our nastiest and most peculiar comments. It happens and people are definitely more forward with leaving nasty comments than happy ones. Would you call me out on something or tell me you don’t like something to my face? Nope probably not. They’re hiding behind their computer.

  8. says

    Sigh. I had someone write me a comment claiming I stole someone else’s recipe as well. Granted, they were similar, but it was for commonly used ingredients. Dislike. Anywho, I’m sure these Sangria Pops work well to let off some steam :)

  9. says

    Wow, those pops are just gorgeous looking, Kita! It’s funny that I’m reading your post now because just a couple of hours ago I got my first nasty comment ever. What I found amazing is not only that someone would be so rude as to come into my “house” and insult me but that he found fault with a recipe he had not yet tried. Um…maybe you should try it out before you list the endless things you believe are wrong with it. Needless to say, I applied the delete button.

  10. says

    Whenever you see a negative comment, realize it’s because the writer feels inadequate and can only make themselves feel better by attacking you. There are very few ‘original’ recipes in the world, because everyone tweaks and makes it their own. In the old days, we passed on recipes by word of mouth from people passing through who may or may not have been the originator (who may well have not been the creator!). This is one of the most vicious generations I’ve had the experience of watching and I only pray something changes. The Internet is helping to create a very cruel and brutal side of mankind to take precedence. I can only imagine what final catastrophe will occur before these mean-spirited people finially wake up. Love that delete button.

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